Just because it’s Valentines Day and you happen to be single does not imply you have to mope alone at home wondering about those who are choosing to celebrate with their significant other. Turn your V-day into a day of self love and take hints from our extensive list of suggestions that t2 tried themselves and fill up your day in the most fruitful way!
Pamper thyself
‘A good bath can change your life and turn you into a whole new person’ –– there isn’t a famous quote like this but we are floating it out there hoping it sticks. For we really believe in the power of a good soak, scrub and moisturiser! A great bath, we firmly believe, is a four-step process. It begins with a good long body massage using a body oil. Let the oil marinate your skin and then step into a warm shower/bath. Follow it up with a scrub session and make sure to get every corner. Follow it up with a soap wash. Lightly towel-dry yourself and then on your semi-wet skin, apply moisturiser. The trick is to use an oil, scrub, soap and moisturiser in the same aroma so that you start believing that you actually smell like chocolate.
Paint the town red (or green as in our case!)Nail paint lovers, take heed. Invest in some easy-to-use goodies that are available online and set up your own nail parlour at home. Get a UV machine and some gel paints and go to town on your talons! The best part…?
These nails last 15 times longer than chipped nail polish within three days of application. There are multiple YouTube videos that will help you along the way. Point to note: Do not expect bejewelled nails with shimmery base right on the first go. The videos may make it look easy but let us assure you, they aren’t!
Write me a love song
Keeping in touch with long-distance friends has always been difficult in our hustle-driven world. If there are common WhatsApp groups in place, there might be an occasional joke shared or two but personal interactions remain limited to calls on birthdays. Why not reach out to those friends who occupied (and still do) a very important place in your life by writing them a letter? Bring out the gorgeous stationery and your favourite gel pens and pour your heart out. Remind them of the craziest moments you have shared and feel them all over again because that’s what ink on paper can do to you. This is a great reminder that ‘the great big love’ is a marketing scam and our lives are brimming with love –– one just needs to reach out.
Baking is therapeutic
Cooking is therapeutic and we all know that. However, it only is so when someone else has prepped everything up for you. The veggies are cut to size, the protein is washed and cleaned and one just has to swoop in and play the only part we see in gorgeous cooking videos. However, if life was that easy we wouldn’t be curating this list for you so the next best alternate is baking. The ingredients are minimal, the process is like science and the joy derived from gluing your eyes to the oven watching your cake rise is unparalleled!
Repeat watchesReading isn’t your cup of tea? Fear not for we have the perfect alternate –– a list of movies that will definitely remind you that you are better off single. Catch Gina Rodriguez of Jane the Virgin fame in
Netflix’s film Someone Great as she struggles to cope with the untimely demise of her long relationship! This film will be a reminder that when everything fails, you still have friends who have your back. And if you are more inclined towards the ‘classics’ like we are, it’s never a bad day to watch He’s Just Not That Into You. With its ensemble cast of some of the sexiest stars in Hollywood, this movie is as much a lesson as it is a riot.
Outdoorsy fam, listen in!
If you are an explorer at heart, we have the perfect place for you to be. Explore the last dregs of the city’s winter months and get your dopamine hit by renting a bike from New Town. With plenty of hidden cafes and corners waiting to be explored an a dedicated bike path just for you, this is the cheapest, safest and best way to enjoy your day. Operated through an app that unlocks your bike once you are near it, this activity will let you sit by a lake alone and count all your blessings that led you to be single on this day!
Read for good ol’ nostalgiaThere is nothing better than dipping into our childhood days of mischief when society didn’t put pressure on single souls to immediately find a partner. Remind yourself of the little things we found joy in and laughed incessantly about by reading the right books.
Pick up a copy of The Diary of a Wimpy Kid series and roll on the floor laughing at Greg’s antics. We can assure you, you will never be able to stop at one and will definitely end up binge-reading like we did! If not Jeff Kinney, there is always Enid Blyton who may not provide the laughs but will definitely take you on a nostalgic overdrive.
Creative pursuits for inner peace
Have you ever played with a 500 or 1,000-piece jigsaw puzzle? Hear us out before you run in the opposite direction. The level of concentration required to finish a small-piece puzzle soon turns into an obsessive need to complete it.
If you are an adventure junkie, we suggest you pick a renaissance artwork and enjoy some truly intimate bonding time with yourself. If puzzles aren’t your cup of tea, may we suggest an adult colouring book instead? Grab a bunch of crayons or colour pencils and let your imagination fly!
