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To daddy, with love

From being a father figure to taking on the role of a circumstantial warrior, this year Father’s Day has taken on a different meaning

Vikas Kumar   |     |   Published 20.06.20, 07:57 PM

So the other day, I was bantering with my children and asked nonchalantly: “So you kids, who do you like more — Mom or Dad?” While the question itself is perennial and most children quickly evaluate the probable repercussions, especially if the question is posed dangerously close to their birthdays or other sundry gift opportunities, many simply duck the question, as I used to when I was young.

While my elder daughter gave the cryptic answers I was expecting, basically playing Miss Altruist, the younger one stuck to her blunt mannerisms and replied matter-of-factly: “Dad, the question is wrong; it’s like comparing chalk and cheese!” Slightly taken aback by her choice of “grown-up” lingo, I reluctantly inquired further. She looked up from her trusted mobile tablet and quipped: “See, of course, I like Mom more, she cooks for us, cleans, plays with me, buys Kinder Joy while you just go to your office and sit at the computer all day long.” Though she could have paraphrased differently, especially the “sitting at the computer” part, I don’t really blame the youngster for her inferences. It is true that children see their fathers far less frequently and whatever is generally interesting to them is taken care of by the mother. Well, until now.

A number of defining moments in history have us see many things in an entirely different perspective, and this pandemic, unfortunate and wretched as it is, had, at least for the willing some, their parental roles somewhat reset. So while all this time the general argument would be to see women taking on traditional “men’s roles”, such as becoming pilots or soldiers as great trendsetters or trend-buckers (depending on how you see it), suddenly doing dishes or laundry by the father has become the equivalent of the moonwalk. Fathers who hadn’t changed a nappy in their lives started to enjoy cooking gourmet foods and painting nails — mostly of their daughters’ and some adventurous, of their own — with pride and humility. While it was quite a thing to acknowledge the role of the mother of today, donning multiple hats with aplomb, it is also quite true that dads have hit the ground running during the ensuing lockdown, juggling Zoom and zucchini, and how.

This column I dedicate to all fathers, on Father’s Day, and at the grave cost of sounding immodest and vainglorious, I must say that the roles of fathers in general and their inherent capabilities have been well-worked and hopefully once this situation gets back to “normal”, this will be the new normal of fatherhood.

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Lamb and chickpeas tagine with fluffy couscous

Ingredients

  • 500g boneless mutton (preferably from the shoulder)
  • 100ml red wine
  • A few sprigs of fresh rosemary
  • 100g onion, carrot, leek, celery (each)
  • 20g garlic
  • 50ml olive oil
  • 300g boiled chickpeas (or canned)
  • 300g fresh tomatoes (pureed)
  • 50g fresh parsley and mint (each)
  • 100g apricots
  • ½ tsp cumin, coriander, cinnamon and smoked paprika powder (each)
  • 20ml honey
  • Green and black olives for garnish
  • Salt and pepper to taste

Method

  • Score the lamb, rub generously with salt, pepper, a bit of oil and leave for three-four hours.

  • In the roasting pan, add some olive oil and saute the garlic, onion, chopped carrot, leeks, celery until the vegetables are tender. Put the lamb and cook briefly over high heat just to seal in the juices. Deglaze with the red wine, add the herbs, seasoning and cover the pan tightly with an aluminium foil. A ladle or two of stock or water can also be added. Place in a preheated oven at 160 degree Celsius for an hour and up to 90 minutes; the lamb should be very tender and moist at this point with a thickish liquid at the bottom that we will use to add flavour to the tagine. Cool the mutton and cut into cubes.

  • For the base of the tagine, saute some onion, garlic, leek, carrot and celery, add tomato puree (canned tomatoes; if you can get hold of them... goes extremely well). Adjust the seasoning, add honey and cook until everything comes together. Now add the boiled/canned chickpeas, along with the water in which chickpeas are boiled, the cubed mutton, the pan juices from the roasted mutton and cook together (covered) for 20-30 minutes on the lowest heat possible. Add apricots, lots of chopped parsley, mint, a squeeze of lemon and the tagine is good to go. Garnish with sliced olives. To serve, cook a batch of couscous as per instructions on the packet. Serve the tagine on top of freshly fluffed couscous. Any good quality red wine will go well with this dish.

Taking up vastly different roles

In an article published recently by a magazine, it was found that kids in general spend 40 per cent less on Father’s Day gifts than on Mother’s Day. While it is true that in ancestral human groups parenting was mostly done by what came to be recognised as “mothers and others”, and that mothers hold babies much more than fathers do, it is also true that the father’s roles have seen a fair bit of change in the last few decades. From being primary breadwinners and dispensers of moral and religious values to their children, fathers these days are taking up roles vastly different from those of yesteryears.

The father of today is no more the quintessential “father figure” that kids feared while at the same time revered. With the changing societal predilections, the dad of today can be single or married, independently employed or stay-at-home, gay or straight, adoptive or biological, but the change in the involvement levels of caregiving is quite evident. Let us celebrate all fathers, and in the light of the present circumstances, dedicate them the title of the male species of the “circumstantial warriors”, many of whom are in a bit of an uncertain period of time but are struggling every day and every moment to make things better for their children and family first and then maybe for themselves.

This ongoing lockdown has seen everything around us change in myriad ways. While on any other Father’s Day, most people, especially the younger folks, get busy planning gifts and outings for their dads, this year is decidedly different. While I do believe that young shoots of normalcy are beginning to sprout and that many will celebrate today not very different to what they have been doing in the past, it is true too that many would want to stay in and celebrate their dads in their own way.

Reminiscing, leafing through a collection of printed — or these days digitalised — images, and cooking and eating together will certainly be in the scheme of things, since there is nothing more apt than a shared meal to count our blessings, especially in these imperfect times.

Here I present two dishes that can be a great way to cook together with your dad. I know since I cooked these two just a few days back in a small gathering at my apartment complex. My neighbour Debishankar, also an accomplished chef, and I got together to cook these dishes for a get-together and they turned out quite well. Since the gathering was mostly attended by dads of various ages, I would argue that the sample size was credible enough to arrive at the inference of these dishes being daddy-friendly. The dishes are slightly different from the usual, take a little while to cook but the end product is quite satisfying and if you’re cooking for your dad, the best efforts are what you want to put. Here goes.

Apple Tarte Tatin

This is one of my most favourite desserts ever and one that ticks all the right boxes as far as being the perfect crowd-pleaser and adding a definite degree of sophistication and virtuoso to the menu go, attributes we want to look for when cooking for an occasion such as this. The most important ingredient of this recipe is the puff pastry. Most people get intimidated by the prospect of making this flaky dough but it is quite simple and if made this way, the results are exceptional.

Puff Pastry

Ingredients

300g flour

150g frozen butter

100ml chilled water

5ml lemon juice

Method

Grate the frozen butter into the flour; rub together till crumbly. Add the chilled water and make stiff dough; do not over knead. Keep in the fridge for a couple of hours. Take out the dough and roll it into a rectangle and fold it into thirds like a letter. Roll again and fold again. Wrap and store till further use.

Apple Tart

Ingredients

  • 1kg fresh apples
  • 200g sugar
  • 50g butter
  • 5g cinnamon powder

Method

  • Peel, core and quarter the apples. Sprinkle with melted butter and cinnamon powder. Make a caramel with the sugar and half the butter, spread on the bottom of the baking pan. Arrange the apples on top of the caramel, top with a disc of the puff pastry, rolled to

  • ¼ cm thickness. Poke the pastry uniformly with a fork. Bake in a moderately hot oven, 200 degree Celsius for 25-30 minutes. Turn upside and serve with ice cream, cream or custard.

Vikas Kumar is the executive chef of Flurys. You can reach him at vkumar@flurys.com



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