in every negotiation there comes a time when the other side puts an offer on the table. At that point, the ball is in your court. Unless you want to accept that offer or walk away from the table, you have to put forth a counter offer.
You would hear all kinds of advice for doing this, and much of that is not particularly useful. For example, a friend might tell you, Always ask for 20 per cent more than you will settle for. You can always retreat. A colleague might say, Always add 10 per cent to what they offer. Employers are always trying to lowball you.
While these tactics might work a few times, they have significant flaws. Not only would they lead you to throw out arbitrary figures, those figures might not be related to what you really want or need out of the negotiation.
Here are three practical pieces of advice that should help you develop counter offers to help achieve your goals.
Before the negotiation begins, take the time to research standard compensation for that particular position. Establish a reasonable range for salary, a typical benefits package, and common additional compensation (for example, stock options, annual bonus, performance bonus). This work makes it possible for you to know the ballpark in which any satisfactory agreement has to fall.
Then, from those general points, determine the most favourable compensation package for you. You should be able to justify that package given the field in which you work (since compensation differs across industries) and your experience, expertise, and credentials.
Make sure that this package addresses the real needs you have — you will likely have trouble asking for more later if you overlook something. This package is your counter offer.
Most negotiators make the mistake of putting out an arbitrary position as their counter offer, then having to retreat from it because they cannot justify it or because they face a hostile reaction. Avoid this pitfall by selecting a reasonable and appropriate counteroffer — one based on the data you gathered in your research — and staying there until the other side offers a persuasive reason for you to move.
Persuasive reason on part of the employer means an argument based on additional data or information that justifies a different figure or package than you had developed. For example, an employer might say, I know that some of our competitors are offering higher salary figures. However, they are much larger than we are, and they expect you to work much longer hours for bigger clients. We offer a salary that allows you to have a reasonable work life and really have an impact on smaller companies.
An example of an unpersuasive argument would be, Your figure is too high. We cant do that.
Keep the big picture in mind. Your goal in the negotiation is to reach an agreement that satisfies your interests, not to win a battle between positions. If your counter offer is not moving you closer to an agreement, do not hunker down, and defend it to death.
Instead, think of another proposal that addresses your needs and concerns and is supported by data, and put that out as another offer. Use your energy to generate solutions, not to fight battles.
Negotiation is all about exchanging ideas, possible solutions and information. Offers and counter offers are the typical steps in this dance. When you counter offer, do so based on rigorous preparation and thinking. If you do that, you would find yourself much more effective, and relaxed.