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The
zany Zorabian tied the knot yesterday
to Boman Irani. No,
not the actor but the real estate developer. You know when
my Boman met the actor Bomans wife, he told her maybe
they should whip up something together. But the actor Bomans
wife, Zenobia, knew that once the name of my Boman was out
the first rumour would be that I was having an affair with
Boman Irani, the actor. The mistaken identity continues.
The actor is still asked what hes doing with Perizaad!
the busybee bride-to-be broke into laughter, days before
the wedding.
Perizaad cant stop singing
praises of Boman. Hes extremely supportive,
a very driven person. Ive known him for a year now.
It was more a mutual attraction than love at first sight.
We met at an event where I was a judge. I loved the way
he conducted himself. He was very real and sensible. Yeah,
hes a Parsi, just like me. Now thats something
I never expected. I had warned my mom and dad that Id
marry anyone whom I fell in love with. How was I to know
that Id fall in love with someone from my own community!
I hardly ever met a Parsi, except Boman Irani the actor,
in the industry. Theyre all Punjabis, Sindhis, etc.
Perizaad intends to continue working
after marriage. Id really love to. Im
reassured by my friends in the industry including Subhash
Ghai that theres a place for me in the industry after
marriage. Thats the advantage of not being straitjacketed
in an image. Ive just finished shooting for N. Chandras
Breaking News. Can you believe it, I was shooting
until 12 days before my D Day? But I had a blast
shooting even then, and so what if I had a wedding round
the corner.
Days before the wedding, Perizaad
was now thick into preparations. I know marriage will
change a lot of things in my life. Even being in a relationship
changed my priorities. You know, we actors are very self-centred.
Once I fell in love with Boman I found myself becoming
considerate about him. Im sure marriage is going to
increase my sense of responsibility. Ive zero sense
of responsibility. Ask my mother. Shes scared about
how I will cope. For the four years that I lived in America
I took care of everything in my apartment. I even cooked,
though my friends said all my cooking tasted the same. But
in Mumbai I left everything to Mom. Im told the sense
of responsibility will just follow after marriage.
Shes looking at marriage
as a beginning of a long-enduring partnership. I
look at my parents marriage and see how much Mom supports
Dad even in his work. Id like to be the backbone in
my marriage. I dont want to be a spoilt little brat
with 10 servants. I want to remain grounded, to be domesticated
while continuing with my career. I also hope to support
my husband in his work.
The actress from Joggers
Park and Morning Raga has four releases coming
up. Theres Zohaib Khans suspense thriller
Highway 203 with K.K. Menon, a hilarious one-night
comedy called Kabhi Up Kabhi Down about a struggling
actress who kidnaps a director, with Sanjay Suri (directed
by Raman Bhardwaj based on a Neil Simon play), Meghna Gulzars
Baat Pakki where Im part of a huge ensemble
cast and N. Chandras Breaking News which captures
the life and rhythm of Mumbai where I play a TV channels
creative head.
The future? I am scared
about my career. I cant pretend that marriage wont
make a difference. I had to drop out of Sanjay Guptas
Alibaug and Nikhil Advanis Salaam-e-Ishq
because they were clashing with my marriage.
Nikhils film got pushed
forward. Otherwise Id have loved to do it. Nikhil
was so sweet about it. But I didnt want to marry when
I had no other option. I wanted to take the plunge when
the going was good. Im told Ive my own niche.
But Id be lying if I said I dont feel insecure
about my future. But Im an optimist. I hope I
can balance marriage and career.
She ended with a giggle. I
cant believe Boman is marrying an actress. Hes
so shy of publicity.
Subhash K. Jha |